November is Military Family month so I thought I would talk
about military life.
Living Overseas
We’ve lived in Okinawa for 3 years and 2 months. So it’s been awhile, well in military life it’s
awhile. When Morg first got orders here
I cried my eyes out. I didn’t want to go
overseas. We were stationed in Bremerton,
Washington at the time and I still felt like it was far from family, now having
to be across the globe…. that was terrifying.
My dad is a retired Navy officer, but we never moved
around. Well, at least when I could
remember. Early in his career he was stationed
on the east coast, Guam, and Japan. I
was non- existent or too young. After
he got stationed in San Diego he hasn’t moved since. As for Morgan, his family was a whole
different story. They moved around a
lot. His father too is a retired Navy
Officer. They were also stationed
overseas in Japan and Puerto Rico. He
grew up moving around and he’s had experiences living abroad so I don’t think
it was that big of a blow for him.
Everywhere we have moved, I’ve hated it!!! I compare everywhere
to San Diego. I missed my city that I
loved so much. Okinawa was no
different. I think I hated it more since
it was a foreign country; the time
difference from home, the distance from home, and it was just so
unfamiliar. After some time, probably a year
or so…. I ended up loving it. Even now I
talk it up to my fellow military spouses.
There are definitely
lots of pros and cons about being overseas.
Being away from everything you know is a very exciting and scary
thought.
My 5 pros about living in Okinawa
1) The experience about
living in a foreign country, learning about its people, culture, traditions and
foods. The people here are the nicest
people I’ve ever met. It’s just so crazy
how nice they are. Maybe I’m jaded by
growing up in the states, but if all people were as nice as they are here it
would be a better world.
2) It is so safe here!
I never hear about crimes happening.
No murders, no burglaries, no kidnappings. People here leave their doors unlocked and
their kids can play outside safely, even at night. One time I left my yen wallet (I keep 1 for
yen and one for dollars) at a restaurant.
There was probably 5000 yen (roughly $50) left in there. I didn’t notice until the next morning and I
called the restaurant as soon as I found out and they had it waiting for
me. ALL the monies were still
there. If that were the states, I doubt
I would get ALL my money back.
3) Being overseas has a whole different vibe. The military community really comes
together. Here we’ve made friends that have
become family. People that we love and
love us. It’s great being able to
connect with people who are going through the exact same things as you.
4) Travel. We love ASIA!
Being here we’ve been able to take some great vacations. I mean we live on a tropical island! So we don’t have to go far for beautiful
beaches. Now that we’re staying longer
we plan on taking more trips around Asia.
5) Food. I know I
touched on it for #1, but the food here is just too good. The Japanese snacks, drinks (especially coffee),
food, desserts………it’s all so good. If we
could afford it I would eat out every day.
The food is delicious, the servers at the restaurants are so friendly
and you don’t even have to tip! I prefer
going to the Japanese grocery stores because their snacks, produce, bread, and
drinks are so good. There is never shortage
of where to eat here. Also my kids love
eating here! It’s not like the states
where on every kids menu is chicken and french fries! Lol My kids eat yakisoba, sushi, udon, curry, ramen,
edamame, and etc. The
kids menu rivals the adult menu. Haha
My 5 cons about living in Okinawa
1) It costs an arm and a leg to get back to the states!! Now
we are lucky because our families live on the west coast. People who are from Hawaii are even
luckier. But generally its 2 flights to
get back to CA. Average cost per person
is $1200, now multiply that by 4 and that’s $4800.00. We are a one income family, so to just shell
out $4800.00 takes some planning and saving. When we go back to visit, we usually take
about a month there because it costs so much to get there and the travel time
is about 14hours. Most recently we went
back to the states on short notice and the tickets for all four of us was
almost $9000.00. Then the money we used
just being on vacation there. It was a
costly vacation for sure.
2) Being away from
family. I’m sad that my kids don’t get
to grow up by their grandparents, aunts, uncles, or cousins. Lots of my family was located in southern CA
so we got to see them often growing up.
My grandparents used to watch us while my parents were at work. We don’t get that here. I wish I could just drop the kids off at my
parents’ house and have a date night. I
wish I could invite my kids’ cousins to their B-day parties. I wish we could have a huge Christmas with
our families. I wish our families didn’t
have to watch our kids grow up via Facetime, Facebook, and Skype. Luckily we’ve been able to make the trip back
to the states yearly, but I know lots of families that aren’t able to.
3) Island fever. Being here can get old. I mean the island is about 463.72 sq miles. It’s small.
Everyone knows everyone. I miss
the stores in the states; like Target, Walmart, Costco, and etc. Mainly we have the Exchange and the Commissary. I go
to both weekly. The deals aren’t that great,
the brands that they carry aren’t that great, and they run out of stuff
constantly.
4) Being lonely.
During Morgan’s first tour here he was gone a lot. He would get deployed here and there for
weeks, sometimes months. Being a stay at
home mom isn’t always fun and easy. The
days are much longer then the nights.
Most of my friends work or have older kids, so a lot of the times it’s
just me and the kids.
5) Driving. Here they drive on the opposite side. That isn’t really the problem. There are just so many things going on when
driving here. The opposite side, motorcycles,
scooters, bikes, pedestrians,
really really narrow roads, and slow drivers.
This island is really small, so you would think that it doesn’t take
long to get anywhere. WRONG! It takes super long. The speed limits here are very slow. I think on the freeway the max speed is 49
mph!! That is the freeway! So you could imagine the regular
streets. For instance, Amelia’s school
is probably 5 miles way, it takes me 20 minutes to get her there! Maybe its because I’m from CA and we drive
crazy fast there. I don’t know, I know I’m
not the only one who isn’t a fan of the driving conditions here.
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